I Think I've Met Scammers

Gosh!!
I never thought that I will ever wrote about this thing called 'scammers'.

Honestly!! I mean.. never crossed in my mind that they will appear in religion based dating/introduction site. Hmm.. I think I'm just too naive (or stupid?!?). 

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Okay.. maybe both but alhamdulillah, thanks GOD I still have my common sense. And thank GOD, despite of I really want to get married and have my own family, I still got that logic and suspicious cell in my mind.  

For you who think that a victim of a scammer is dumb, well let me tell you that they're soo damn good in melting woman's heart with sweet and poetic words. Make us believe that we're the one on only, the luckiest gal on earth. I'm not a kind of woman who easily in love but yet.. hearing a good words from a nice man really makes my day. 

I wont considered myself as a victim. NO!! Although that man hasn't ask for any money, but I still belief that he's a scammer. So how can I know that I was talking to a scammer??

Well...

He suddenly fall in love with me after a while. Just after I replying his 1st email then he suddenly told me that he fall for me on the next email.

Lots of grammatical errors. Look.. I'm not from USA or England but I at least my English is better than he who claimed to have HIGH education (Ph.D) and was born and stayed in UK and USA (yes, I've met 2 scammers) for his entire life. Besides... is it normal for a Ph.D holder to make lots of mistake and typo??

Sometimes its hard to get answer from simple question like 'hows the weather there?' because the answer is always 'it's nice'. And he always said 'yes' to my next question about the weather.

Example:

Me: hows the weather there?
S: It's nice.
Me: is it cold?
S: Yes. (suppose the next day I ask, is it windy? the answer will be the same).

No connection at all from one mail to another. Normally, when ever we wrote a mail to someone, he/she will answer our question right? or at least.. that person will be at the same page with us. No our mail and his/her reply would be like a story. Well.. don't expect it that way with a scammer. At least that's one thing I learn from that man from dating site. For me his mail is like something that written by a narcissist. Why?? Because he only talking about HIS feelings, HIS love and what HE want. Never paying attention on what I wrote. Once I tried to asked again the same question that I have ask in my prev. email (which he didn't answer) and try and try again. The result?? BIG ZERO. So.. for short, he just skipped that question over and over again.

What happened now??

Nothing actually. I had enough following his game and now just block him. And maybe... he's tired of me who's asking the same question again and again and again. *EvilGRin* Finally I just blocked him. I even write a mail to the site's admin about it. 

So.. to my beloved sisters who's still on search. Please be careful. I know.. sometimes we feel so desperate in finding our soulmate especially when most of our friends are married. But taking care of our self is a MUST. Protecting our self is a MUST. Keeping our common sense to keep on track is also a MUST.

Now... Good luck with your search as I'm still on with my search.

Kiss and Hugs,